Mass Effect Month: Day 9 – Love in the Air

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Mass Effect Month, Day 9: Who is your favorite character to romance?

*cries and runs from the room*

Seriously, how can you make me choose?

Jack is surprisingly sweet under all that sass, even to an un-romanced Shepard (the little hopeful nod she gives when she asks, “Shepard? Is that you?” when Shepard calls her during the final battle is adorable), and Miranda is a complete ice queen, again, until you get to know her.

Liara, of course, carries a torch for Shepard even if she’s not romanced, and their relationship is one of the most developed of the games. I really liked how the dialogue reflected how long the two knew each other, and I think the devs knocked it out of the park in regards to portraying a “long” relationship (for a video game). Liara doesn’t take crap from Shepard, and isn’t afraid to ask for what she wants, even as her heart is probably demanding she abandon all logic.

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But poor Liara unfortunately made one little mistake that reminded me a little too much of my overly controlling ex, and so poor Shepard stayed with her because I was trying to role play as “not myself,” not because I personally was enamored with her, although I do think they make a cute couple and I do ship them, all my issues aside.

So… who is my favorite romance?

It’s a tie! (Surprise! …?)

Thane Krios… I just love him. And for a guy to be on my list, that’s really saying something about him. You know, I never understood how folks could go for Garrus, who looks like a cat mixed with a bug, but I can almost almost get it when I compare it to Thane. I have no physical attraction to this guy. Zero. None. And when I have the option to play as a homosexual character, you bet I take it. And sexual orientation isn’t a choice. And my Shepard was gay. And if she had ridden off into the sunset with Thane, I would have been the happiest person and would have run after them throwing rose petals at them and singing love songs or something.

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That’s how much I love Thane. And I love the two of them together. I really do think that the each provide something the other is looking for.

But see, then it’s complicated. Because Thane *mumble mumble spoilers* so riding off into a sunset isn’t exactly something that can happen.

So, my canon soul-mate for Shepard is actually…

Well, do I really have to say it?

Again, BioWare does a great job portraying the relationship, this time the dizzying, lighthearted, and playful beginning of a relationship while still underpinning it with a meaningful connection. Samantha’s the only one – it appears – who seems to not only care for Shepard, but wants to take care of her and doesn’t ask her for anything but her love in return.

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I only wish she had been in the first or second game. I would have loved to see how their relationship developed over time. As it was, seeing her just be so playful and cheeky with Shepard was really delightful, and if you clicked that link above you know that I loved how so much about her was portrayed subtly but firmly.

Okay, okay, I know. I’ve been ignoring Andromeda. But I only had time to romance one (and a half, if you count a PeeBee fling) person, so she’s my default favorite romance for that game (although she’s pretty great even as not a default). Dr. Suvi Anwar. I mean, she’s like Samantha Traynor and Leliana rolled into one person so… yeah what’s not to like?? But seriously, she’s kind and smart and is a great foil to awkward Ryder. Again, I would have liked to have seen more of a relationship between the two, but that’s what you get for romancing the folks who stay on the ship, I suppose…

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I had a comment a few days ago about the homosexual options being relegated to “crew mates only,” meaning there were fewer interactions and dialogue options. While I will say that, yes, this is true, personally I look at it as “baby steps.” I want to praise BioWare for being progressive, not complain at them for not being progressive enough when – let’s be honest – they’re leading the charge when it comes to representation.

But that’s a topic for an entirely different day.

What about you? Who was your first and/or favorite Mass Effect romance? Let me know in the comments!

I should go,
~ Athena

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  1. You think Garrus and Thane were weirdly alien looking, I would’ve chosen Wrex if I could’ve lol. I loved his blunt, get shit done attitude. My favorite asari was that bartender with the krogan father. I don’t think I could deal with straight krogan, but tempered with either intelligence or maybe just lack of complete bullheadedness, that would’ve been an interesting relationship 😋

    I have to agree with you on Thane, and that one scene during the Citadel DLC with his son. Well I shed a few tears 😥

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      1. He’s my favorite character hands down. I LOVE that kind of blunt attitude, even though I’m not blunt myself. I think I secretly wish I could be; have that “f**k all” attitude and not let anything really bother me. I’ve always loved characters like that, and Wrex genuinely doesn’t GAF (except about his family’s armor. That was really important…and well his species, but you get my meaning).

        Oh wait, yeah, that was Liara’s father! I forgot about that. I don’t know how asari genealogy works, but that would mean that Liara had a krogan grandfather? Probably not hehe.

        *sigh* ;_;

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        1. Haha Be careful with blunt. It’s sometimes interpreted as “tactless.” Not that I know from experience or anything… But you’re right that Wrex is a stronger “character” because of his attitude.

          She did! She’ll even comment to… Grunt?… that she’s one-quarter krogan after she finds out! haha

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  2. My female gay Shepherd has been with Liara from the start. It’s odd though, now I’m playing through ME2 again I don’t really like ‘Information Broker Liara’ as much as how she was as a Prothean Archeologist. Also, despite my lesbian nature, I really love the character of Thane. There is just something beautiful in his nature that I admire.

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    1. She’s a solid partner, for sure. My issues aside, I think she and Shepard are a very cute couple! You’re right that she gets a little intense as an information broker and loses some of that naivety from the first game.

      You’re in good company about Thane. I absolutely agree 🙂

      I’m so glad you stopped by, and thanks for commenting! Hopefully you’ll come by again soon!

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